The calm is faced. Misunderstanding always wants to eliminate, it is the problem of time time only. Accordingly, after producing misunderstanding, classmates might as well first of calm buy, undertake namely alleged " cold treatment " . Conversely, if feel oneself,be upset by unkindness and everywhere apologize, likely not only cannot get sympathize with, invite family ridicule instead or deepen misunderstanding.
Not personal feeling is in power. Blame oneself person wrongly to those, do not have resentment. At this moment, should do a few " mending " , active become reconciled; Conversely, if be in power to misunderstanding personal feeling, "The body that with its the person's path still treats its person " , misunderstanding makes a small incident that touches off a big one that each other concern to worsen further possibly.
Search a root to trace to the source. Want to analyse the germ that misunderstands generation cool-headedly, find the crux of the problem. If responsibility is in oneself are one, might as well " have what change " ; If be absent, that also need not anxious, "The fine medicine that time is clear misunderstanding " .
Act actively. Clear the air, can adopt a variety of methods. For instance, make the same score gas and ground interview with the popular feeling that produces misunderstanding to oneself, also can entrust someone else to make an explanation. Be like these methods still indelible misunderstanding, can ask teacher, parent to appear personally explanation.
Origin: Detain escapes