Many parents in dealing with children's negative emotions there is a lot of errors on both, the views and attitudes of parents is likely to impact on the child's life. Parent Education and expert analysis "against" two major errors the child angry, I hope home
Long are warning.
A misunderstanding
Ignore the child over to let go
Many parents agree with this view: When a child is not happy, allowed he was not happy, do not rush to comfort him. So, when kids get angry or cry, let the children of your tears. After the parents think that children cry
Often just fine.
"When the child has bad mood, you can allow him to vent, because the child is small, also need a separate space. However, parents do not give children too much space, otherwise the child to feel the warmth of a parent
. "Luchun Jing said," over letting go "approach is inappropriate. Because it may give the child's psychological formation of the shadow, that parents do not care.
In addition, children appear negative emotions, "over letting go" will produce the following side effects: such as children feel neglected and insecure, will form a seemingly independent, real inner conflict fragile character.
Lu Chunjing introduction, the correct approach is that parents are the child calm down, find opportunities and child communication, understanding the reasons for the child to negative emotions, enlighten children. "This, on the one hand to help children better
Deal with negative emotions; the other hand, parents allow children to them to realize the love and care, to gain a sense of security. "
Error II
Angry child maltreatment
Some parents saw their children adverse emotions, will feel pain, even cursed child. Luchun Jing said: "The family environment is very important for parents to give children to do an example, how parents treat their children, the child will
How to treat others. "If parents with simple and crude way to deal with children's negative emotions, such an approach will not only allow the child's mind and body injuries, but also taught to children by hitting to solve problems.
In addition, Lu Chunjing that although this approach will yield immediate results sometimes, but not conducive to good communication, bad communication and if this continues, then the easy emergence of various problems, such as puppy love, social
Will be crime.
