9, reaction thresholds -- the sensitivity that shows the physiology sex appeal such as pair of sound, smooth, temperature, odour knows, and the sensitivity that waits for sociality feature to change of person expression, manner.
Sensitive child: Be good at taking slight change, be apt to carefully watch what sb is doing and saying, if sleep-disorder, natural environment refuses to obey,Dan Taimin move appears possibly, recreant wait for a problem.
Not sensitive child: Appear the feeling is slower. Although meeting oversight is very much petty change, omit a few information, but the child can be protected to avert the interference that suffers outside stimulation on certain level, produce the problem that sensitive child appears easily lesser.
"Inactive temperament " the behavior problem that children appears easily
Face the demand of the parent, school, society, the child is getting used to society and learning process in, often show the trait of inactive temperament, often cannot achieve the requirement of the parent, school or society, incidental conflict, generation " adjust undesirable " . To this, the parent and teacher if cannot appropriate processing, the child appears easily in growing process a variety of behavior problems. The commonnest have:
One, get angry: Reaction intensity and hold to the children with tall sex to appear hot-tempered, grouchy when roughhouse, and fool hard. If the parent for make concessions to avoid trouble, do not divide circumstance ground to satisfy the child's requirement, the child's disposition is met bigger and bigger, have the manner that does not amount to a purpose not to stop greatly. If the parent is lacked,be a method in order to punish, can make this kind of child easier show be agitated, inimical, irritable sentiment. Contrary, if the parent is right of the child unjustifiable cry be troubled by adopt " cold treatment " , cry the intensity that be troubled by is met till drop off disappears.
Right slow model the child, apply force and urgent meeting accentuation its shrink back and negative sentiment, make its appear get used to an obstacle. Should give the child sufficient time, the characteristic according to him child comes acclimatization.
2, move more: Good move, move more differ to use disease at how, but asking tall environment is medium, often be thought by accident " use disease more " . The parent should plan campaign according to the child's characteristic, increase the chance of outdoors activity. Because this kind of child is driving, energy is proper after disperse the internal heat with sudorifics, ability relatively sit quietly, if energy cannot get dissipation, a short while could there be hard. In addition, in their outdoors activity often capacity is available better play, gain more affirmation and self-confidence.
3, mood obstacle: The child with particularly strong reaction, the reaction when encountering depart or setback may very extreme, appear easily separative angst. Too sensitive child, easy generation is scared; When criticize and be censured, proper pride is harmed easily, the mood becomes low. When raising these children, should take the kind that encourage and affirms, try revulsive with the time that extends positive sentiment.
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