The person's individual character reachs his to develop the product that is social environment. The family regards a microcosmic society as the environment, very important place is had in the person's education and development. The action that the family teachs is other any educational orgnaizations can never replace. A few new direction of the history that at present we examine Chinese family to teach with scientific contemporary eye, current situation and development, can discover build those who be based on the science over pattern of growth of children body and mind truly, the domestic education of open mode, no matter still was done not have now in the past,can gain ground in the round.
One, the current situation that the family teachs thinks over
Since reforming and opening, respect the knowledge, atmosphere that respects a person with ability to be formed gradually. People is in fair with each passing day competition, begin to realize him knowledge is shallow broad, aftereffect is insufficient. As family planning policy carry out, the improvement of domestic economic atmosphere, when be born not to meet, lofty ideal did not propose a toast plaint the expectation with ardent melt into and deep-felt emotional pour into are leaving generation body. At this moment, the conscious or involuntary behaviour that parents foster the child anticipates the colour that contains ego of heavy on next generation bodies model more or less. But right now, what the family teachs method and way is newer greatly lag always does not have the feeling that stops and corporeal investment at parents. In fact, parents have education to children according to his intuition and traditional experience mostly, and this kind of intuition and some kind of traditional experience often runs in the opposite direction with scientific family education way, prevail on family teachs an error:
(1) with " prodigy " education replaces inchoate development. Because hope children will have a bright future,the heart is cut, the parent is used to applying an adult to change way education is little, with prep above the age class of actual age asks to measure little whether grow into useful timber, let the child learn this to learn that according to the parent's apiration, him implementation designs for the child " great strategy " . This and the arranged marriage previously are same, the desire of result child and parent runs in the opposite direction. . Exceed to intelligence constant " talent children " , the education of teenager undergraduate becomes educational heat again. Violate badly as a result of this kind little body, heart, wisdom, the education that tastes all respects to develop the rule, in education content respect was head and shoulders above little bear ability, what often face consequently is " 10 years old of prodigy, 1 5 talent, 20 laic " awkward situation.
Scientific little education should be intellective to including development, creativity development, the quality that is not intellective element education and moral character to wait inside is developed in the round, should be to build more be in little the reasonable development over base of normal development of body and mind.
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