-- shallow the morality that talks about the parent sets an example the moral nurturance with the child

Zhang Xiaoli learns in lake of star of weather of city of Jiangsu province Nantong

As reforming and opening, our country, our society moves toward diversity gradually, the idea that all sorts of thoughts are attacking us ceaselessly like the flood our heart, affecting the social behaviour of people. Face commodity society ecbolic those who come out a lot of gainful, do obeisance to gold to forget justice, the phenomenon with dim favor, of our parenthood, do sociological research, deep sigh of regular meeting frown: Day of not ancient, public morals leaves popular feeling. Our parent can be given out more " after thinking, the child is raised, preparation enters beadhouse in the future " deep feeling. However, let us look to just be born to the child of this world well, how his eye is clear, how is his heart pure?

Modern psychology studies achievement makes clear, the mother is when be pregnant with fetal the trade that having energy and news, the child is born 3 ～ 8 months, arose " I, he " distinction; 12 months can distinguish 8 ～ oneself certain and exterior attribute; 2 one full year of life of 1 ～ , had the idea of sex of a few ego; 3 ～ always like 4 years old to be a center with ego; There was self-image consciousness after 5 one full year of life; The order that parents can carry after 7 one full year of life and rewards and punishment feel the morality of heteronomy, again idea of a few dispute that in the future formed him gradually, good and evil. As the child allow our parent of the teacher, think, had been we done to the child set an example? Do we have the child that sends ground of our spirit, our thought exert a subtle influence on to us? We guide the child with actively of our words and deeds? Look below two setting that author place sees.

Setting one, on the weekend, downtown some bus stands, crowd jam, as the bus slowly berth, blundering crowd begins insanity. A young mother is being taken 3, cheeper of 4 years old was taken by stream of people car, look at all running to seek positional person, the mother is impatient -- the place that can have a have a rest for cheeper. When what Iing hope to go when her in the future from the back still have a place, prepare to let the child sit down in her however when coming, a middleaged woman stretchs her hand on the side held off, say coldly here somebody. Young mother became red face, disappointed region wears what cheeper stands helplessly in empty seat on the side. For ages, a junior high school will give birth to the girl of about on, middleaged woman pulls she sits down, the girl sees the little little brother that stand by want to stand up, however by middleaged woman one is pulled. Then the girl's face looks to the window outside, double eye is spellbound, also do not look to shouting by again the little little brother that the foot is fond of...

Setting 2, at the back of some apartment cuddle, the tangerine tree that plants newly opened a flower in spring, the ossicle that began to have green in summer. The resident in the building everyday the course met the face to look twice more once upon a time, imagining when adrift of autumnal advent fallen leaves, the ground hangs a golden orange heavy in branch, waving pure and fresh fragrance, bring mature hope. However, the steam of this summer has not come loose, the fruit on the tree is less and less however. When a day of casual ground is transient, see a middleaged man is taking the child to play below the tree, the child's face is red attack attack, the child's eye looks at the fruit with the acerbity blueness on the tree is longing completely. "Father picks fruit " the child plays the hand that plays father. "Good, father is picked to darling " middleaged man stretchs his hand pulled down branch, it is probably too exerting oneself to do sth. is a tree probably too flimsy, hear only " " one, branch was broken, the man picked that little fruit convenient and easy to use to throw branch, child laugh, but, I hear young tangerine tree cried clearly however...
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